Welcome to Cozy Notes...
where life slows down and joy finds you
Hey there! I’m Xuan (pronounced like Susan without the second “s.” Don’t worry, you’re not the first to wonder). Grab a cuppa or whatever fuels your soul, and let’s get to know each other.
A Little About Me
I’m a homeschooling mom of three, a former history teacher turned mindful living coach, and someone who knows a thing or two about feeling overwhelmed and stretched thin. For years, I wore all the hats—educator, blogger, caregiver, homemaker, homeschooler, host, problem-solver—while putting my own needs on the back burner.
Spoiler alert: That didn’t end well.
After realizing I couldn’t pour from an empty cup (and trust me, I tried), I started making small but intentional changes. I learned to slow down, set boundaries, and rediscover what actually makes me happy.
Turns out, life feels a lot better when you’re not running on fumes. Go figure.
Why I Created Cozy Notes
The world moves freakin’ fast. Between work, family, and the never-ending to-do list, it’s easy to feel like there’s no time left for you. But here’s the thing: Slowing down isn’t about doing less or selling everything to move to the Scottish Highlands (I know you’ve watched those YouTube videos, too 😉)—it’s about doing what matters most.
Cozy Notes is where I share stories, insights, and practical tips to help you reclaim your time, rediscover joy, and create a life that feels good from the inside out.
How I Can Help You
If you’re tired of feeling drained, juggling everyone else’s needs, and wondering where you fit into your own life, you’re in the right place. I help women—especially fellow caregivers, people-pleasers, and perfectionists—stop hustling for their worth and start putting themselves first (without the guilt). Through relatable stories, gentle encouragement, and a touch of humor, I’ll help you:
Reclaim your time and energy
Set boundaries without the guilt
Rediscover what brings you joy
Let go of the pressure to do it all
Feel more present, grounded, and confident
What You Can Expect
Every week, I share personal stories, practical reflections, and cozy conversations to help you slow down and live more intentionally. Here’s the lineup for free subscribers:
Tuesdays: A new podcast episode where I share relatable stories, honest reflections, and practical tips to help you slow down and live with intention.
A weekly YouTube vlog, where you can peek into my slow, cozy life (spoiler: there’s usually a matcha latte involved).
A monthly reflection—short (sometimes), sweet, and packed with small shifts that can make a big difference.
Want Even More?
Upgrade to a paid subscription and unlock:
Exclusive content twice a month—including personal stories, deep dives into intentional living, behind-the-scenes glimpses of life at a slower pace, journal prompts, and more.
A weekly private podcast—it’s unscripted, unfiltered, and a bit like a cozy voice note from a friend. Casual, honest, and real.
Want Even More, More?!
Become a Simple Life Social Club member and receive:
A special welcome gift in the mail.
Thank you shout out on YouTube videos—don’t worry, I won’t share your last name.
Quarterly live Q&A—like group coaching, but cozier. Bring your questions and get real-time support in a relaxed, supportive space.
Special downloadable resources—think practical guides & checklists designed to help you simplify life.
Postcards from my travels—because who doesn’t like snail mail that’s not junk or a bill?
Exclusive access to events, workshops, and more (plus, you’ll get VIP perks whenever possible—because you’re awesome like that).
What Others Are Saying
“I am so grateful to have had Xuan walk beside me during such a pivotal time. She helped me lay the foundation to be my best self for the next chapter of my life. I now feel so present, aligned, and truly the best I’ve ever felt thanks to her support.” — Chelsea L.
“It really took someone like Xuan to listen to me and help to break things down to see great impact can come from the right little steps.” — Emily B.
“Xuan was always so encouraging and enlightening. While I recognize this is an ongoing journey and not over, I now have a strong sense of self again. I feel empowered and light. That light feeling has brought back my sanity.” — Cheralyn C.
“Working with Xuan helped me gently sustain focus on what matters most in a way that seems life-changing. I call myself an artist now and put energy into cultivating that part of myself and my life.” — Lisa B.
“Xuan and I worked together in creating a plan with attainable goals. With her gentle guidance and encouragement, I was able to start this process in a way that was much less overwhelming. I was able to accomplish most of what I set out to do. I am so grateful for her support, ideas, and the accountability I felt while working with her.” —Diana B.
“Thank you for the reminder that intentional living is about the how, not the aesthetic. Your post is a breath of fresh air in a social media sea of unrealistic expectations ❤️” — Ashely T.
“Great wisdom! Also your voice is so soothing! Loved what you said about reminding about not saying yes to everything and how that can be like giving, and also about the crazy fun overstimulating days just being one day. Thank you.” — Kristin C.
“Whenever I feel overwhelmed, I always come to your channel and you always help me just rewire my mindset!! Truly enjoy your channel and content.” — Brittany M.
Let’s Connect
So, whether you’re sipping coffee in the early morning quiet, sneaking five minutes of peace in the car, or reading this while hiding from your kids in the bathroom (no judgment!), I’m glad you’re here. I hope Cozy Notes feels like a breath of fresh air in your busy world—a reminder that slowing down doesn’t mean falling behind. It means finally catching up with yourself.
Hit that subscribe button, and let’s slow down together.
